How to Clean and Store Sex Toys Safely
A step-by-step guide to cleaning toys by material, drying and storing them properly, and knowing when it’s time to replace one.
Cleaning your toys after every use is one of the simplest things you can do for your sexual health. It removes body fluids, lube and bacteria, lowers the chance of irritation and infection, and helps your toys last longer. Here’s how to do it properly for each type of material.
Start with the manufacturer’s instructions
The manufacturer knows exactly what your toy is made of and how well its electronics are sealed, so their instructions always come first. Keep the instruction booklet, or save a photo of the cleaning instructions on your phone.
How to clean toys by material
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and hard plastic
These materials are non-porous, which means they have a sealed surface that can be cleaned thoroughly.
- Wash with warm water and a mild, unscented soap, or a cleaner made for toys.
- Pay extra attention to seams, ridges, textured areas and the edges around buttons.
- Rinse well so no soap residue is left behind.
Some manufacturers say that motor-free silicone, glass and stainless steel toys can be boiled for a few minutes or washed on the top rack of a dishwasher without detergent. Only do this if your manufacturer confirms it’s safe, and let glass cool gradually rather than rinsing it in cold water while hot.
Toys with motors or batteries
How you clean a toy with electronics depends on its water-resistance rating. Our guide to waterproof ratings explains what each rating means.
- Fully waterproof (IPX7 or higher): wash under running water with mild soap, as above. Close any port covers first.
- Splash-resistant or no rating: never submerge it. Wipe it with a cloth dampened with soapy water, then with a cloth dampened with clean water, keeping moisture away from charging ports and seams.
- Battery-powered toys: remove the batteries before cleaning, if you can.
Always make sure the charging port and contacts are completely dry before you charge the toy.
Porous materials: TPE, TPR, jelly and “realistic” skin
Soft, stretchy materials such as TPE and jelly have tiny pores that can trap moisture and bacteria, so they can’t be fully sanitized.
- Wash gently with warm water and mild soap. Harsh scrubbing can damage the surface.
- Use them with a condom, especially if there’s any chance of sharing.
- Don’t share porous toys between partners, and replace them more often than non-porous toys.
What not to use
- Bleach and harsh household cleaners: they can damage materials and leave irritating residue.
- Scented soaps and products with fragrance: these are a common cause of irritation.
- Boiling water or the dishwasher for anything with electronics: this can destroy the motor and the seals.
Drying
Let your toys air-dry completely on a clean towel, or pat them dry with a lint-free cloth. Moisture trapped in seams or in a storage bag gives bacteria and mold a place to grow.
Storage
- Keep toys separate. Store each one in its own clean, breathable pouch or original box. Some materials can react or stain when they touch each other for long periods.
- Avoid heat and sunlight. Keep toys somewhere cool, dry and dust-free.
- Look after batteries. Remove disposable batteries if you won’t use a toy for a while. Some manufacturers also recommend topping up rechargeable toys every few months.
Sharing toys and switching between body parts
If you share a toy with a partner, or switch between anal and vaginal use, either put a new condom on the toy or wash it thoroughly in between. Moving bacteria from the anus to the vagina can cause infections.
When to replace a toy
It’s time for a new one if you notice:
- cracks, tears or rough patches on the surface
- a sticky, tacky or oily feel, which can mean the material is breaking down
- a smell or discoloration that won’t wash off
- water getting inside, a damaged charging port or other electrical faults
Quick reference
| Material | How to clean | Can it go under water? |
|---|---|---|
| Silicone, glass or steel (no motor) | Mild soap and warm water, or toy cleaner | Yes |
| Waterproof toy with motor (IPX7+) | Mild soap and warm water, port covers closed | Yes, but never boil |
| Splash-resistant toy with motor | Wipe with a damp, soapy cloth | No |
| TPE, TPR or jelly | Gentle wash with mild soap; use with a condom | Only if it has no electronics |
Frequently asked questions
Do I need a special toy cleaner?
No. Warm water and a mild, unscented soap work well for most toys. Toy cleaners are convenient, especially for wiping down electronics, but they aren’t essential.
Can I use antibacterial wipes?
Many wipes contain alcohol or fragrance that can irritate sensitive skin or damage some materials. If you use them, rinse or wipe the toy with clean water afterwards, and check the manufacturer’s guidance first.